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- Tapped the partner’s observed willingness to meet one’s needs and provide responsive care.
My partner listened to and comforted me.
My partner helped me solve a problem I was having.
My partner did a chore that is normally my responsibility.
My partner did something he/she didn’t really want to do because I wanted to do it.
My partner put my tastes ahead of his/her own.
My partner complimented or praised me.