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- Tapped mundane events that involved the partner thwarting or interfering with one’s personal goals.
My partner did what he/she wanted to do instead of what I wanted him/her to do.
My partner used the last of something I needed and didn’t replace it.
My partner didn’t do something he/she told me he/she would do.
My partner contradicted me in front of others.
My partner wouldn’t talk about an issue I wanted to discuss.